For new visitors

This site hasn't been updated in a long time, but there are still some gems here (and on the even older blog which you can find linked above). Some general notes:

  • I wrote a lot of this stuff just before and during my gender transition, which I've (thankfully) mostly put in my past. But that means a lot of it was written at a time when that was kind of dominating my life. So bear with me, 'kay?
  • There's a lot of great tabletop role-playing advice scattered throughout (use the tags to find it). I don't do a whole lot in that community anymore because being a mom and playing roller derby have eaten all of my time, but it doesn't mean I don't want to.